Health is invisible when we have it, but priceless when we lose it. As a woman, I donât want to simply survive life â I want to thrive, to feel alive, strong, and keep my mind sparking
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Robin Sharmaâs Wisdom
Robin must have definitely experienced the ups and downs of life to have written this. As the author of The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari and The 5AM Club, his work reflects a clear awakening about what truly matters in life and how to get the best out of ourselves.
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Why This Quote Matters to Me
Because it has been a crown Iâve worn and a crown Iâve felt almost too privileged to have. Motherhood brought different feelings when my health was low â the fear and realization that I am not immortal, and the question of whether Iâve secured the path for the ones who matter most to me.
Realizing that without health, everything turns to dust. And then you start weighing up: what is my pound of flesh worth?
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Loss, Grief, and Realization
Last year I lost one of my favourite people in the world, along with my cousin to cancer at age 30. Iâm still not at peace with the struggles they endured. My grandadâs suffering, extended by protocols that failed to care for him, changed me forever.
He was my consistent male role model â solidly present until he wasnât. My cousin embodied joy and optimism. Their journeys made me see health differently: fragile, precious, and never guaranteed.
The Guilt of Health
There is guilt in standing healthy in front of the sick. Even small injuries remind us how much we rely on our bodies. A paper cut or burn suddenly makes you realize how essential that one finger is.
As humans, we quickly forget â which is both a blessing and a curse. Forgetting allows us to move forward, but it also makes us less consistent.
Why Am I Not at Optimum Health?
I love life and quality time with family and friends. I enjoy solo experiences that feed the soul and mind.
With all the knowledge and life lessons, why am I not at peak condition in body, mind, and spirit?
Because I prioritize othersâ needs before my own.
Work, motherhood, eldest daughter, active granddaughter, and great friendships⌠thatâs my list. And 24 hours, 7 days a week, gets filled quickly when you enjoy the blessings.
The 1% Rule
James Clearâs Atomic Habits says: âIf you can get 1% better each day for a year, youâll end up thirtyâseven times better by the time youâre done.â
I donât favour an extreme mindset. I want flexibility, the comfort of not feeling guilty if I do or donât achieve something just for the end goal.
As a mother (and this applies to fathers too), kids are unpredictable â you learn to roll with it.
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Living in the Now
I want to live in the now, which to me also means loving the now I have.
Extra pounds? ITâS OK.
Gym on the toâdo list? ITâS OK.
Something sweet here and there? ITâS OK.
Everything has its season. Grief brought health challenges, but I needed spiritual and mental health to take priority. Now, as I grow a business Iâm passionate about, personal life takes a slight back seat. But I know that exercise will fuel creativity, reduce fatigue, and give me energy.
Seeking My 1%
This is why I look for the 1% in all areas â to bring a steady, sustainable type of healthy life.
Together, they form a philosophy: honour your crown by investing in small, consistent acts of wellness.
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Closing Reflection
I hope some of what Iâve expressed resonates with you. If it sparked your interest or touched you emotionally, I hope to see you on the next one.
I am wearing my crown, and I want to stay aware of the blessing. I am seeking my 1%, and that feels really good right now.
Love and warmest regards,
Miss Ardun
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